wedding vows & speech coaching
because your special moment
deserves memorable words
Why Work with a Wedding Vow Coach?
Your wedding vows are one of the most meaningful speeches you’ll ever give. But knowing what to say—and how to say it—can feel overwhelming. That’s where a wedding vow coach comes in. Whether you're struggling to put your feelings into words, worried about public speaking, or just need a little polish, we’ll help you craft vows that feel authentic, personal, and unforgettable.
What a Wedding Vow Coach Can Do for You
Help You Find the Right Words – You have all the love and emotion, I help turn it into vows that flow beautifully.
Make the Process Stress-Free – No more staring at a blank page! I offer guidance, structure, and expert feedback.
Ensure Your Vows Sound Like You – Whether you want romantic, funny, poetic, or heartfelt, I’ll make sure your vows reflect your personality and relationship.
Boost Your Confidence – Nervous about speaking in front of a crowd? We offer tips for delivery, pacing, and making sure your vows land perfectly.
Big feelings? No problem. Let’s put them into words that wow.
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What’s Included:
Initial Consultation Form – Consider this our first date. Are we right for each other? I hope so! Once approved we’ll move onto our:
Meet Cute Video Call* (30 min) – Let’s get to know each other and discuss your vision! (payment is due before our call)
Personalized Questionnaire – With your guidance from the questionnaire, I will tailor your speech specifically to you, making sure it’s everything you’ve ever wanted.
Rough Draft – Delivered within 5 days of completing the questionnaire.
Second Draft – Revise on your own or request edits.
Dress Rehearsal* (30 min) – Read it aloud, polish together.
Final Rehearsal * (30 min) – Perfect your delivery & and boost you confidence.
Bonus: 10 Essential Public Speaking Tips!
**All meetings will take place over Zoom.
Your love story is one of a kind—your vows should be too.
Whether you're writing vows, a Maid of Honor speech, or a heartfelt toast, I'll help you craft something meaningful, polished, and truly you.
Pricing:
Vows: $379 per person | $659 per couple
Maid of Honor / Best Man / Parent or Other Speeches: $315
Complete Package (Vows + Any Other Two Speeches): $1100 Makes a great gift!
Whether it’s a tearjerker or a lighthearted toast to forever, I’ll make sure your words land.
You’ll receive a rough draft within 5 days of completing the questionnaire. The full process, including revisions and rehearsals, usually takes 1-3 weeks. Of course, the sooner you complete the questionnaire, the sooner I can start. Need it ASAP? I offer rush services (1-4 days) for an additional fee.
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Say ‘I do’ to vows that feel 100% you. Let’s write them together!
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All Ristonchi couples receive$100 off the complete vow package!
Making Your ‘Once Upon a Time’ Sound Effortless
Let’s write something unforgettable together
OUR SERVICES
The Bride
The Groom
Maid of Honor
Best Man
Parent, Friend or Relative
Take your Initial Consultation Survey today!
Will my vows sound like me?
Absolutely! My job is to refine your words, not replace them. I make sure your vows feel natural, personal, and totally you—whether you want something romantic, funny, poetic, or a mix.
I want my vows to be funny. Can you help?
Of course! Humor is one of my specialties. I’ll help you incorporate the perfect mix of sentiment and laughter, so your vows feel natural, charming, and engaging.
How do I get started?
Easy! Fill out the form at the top of the page, and I’ll confirm details before you book. Then, we’ll start crafting vows that make your partner (and everyone else) swoon.
What if I need my vows ASAP?
I offer rush services (1-4 days) for an additional $100. Just let me know, and we’ll make sure you have stunning vows on time!
What does a wedding vow coach do?
A vow coach helps you craft heartfelt, authentic, and beautifully written vows that sound like you—without the stress, writer’s block, or last-minute panic. I guide you from brainstorming to final delivery, ensuring your vows are meaningful, memorable, and easy to say out loud.
How long does the process take?
You’ll receive a rough draft within 5 days of completing the questionnaire. The full process, including revisions and rehearsals, usually takes 1-3 weeks. Of course, the sooner you complete the questionnaire, the sooner I can start. Need it ASAP? I offer rush services (1-4 days) for an additional fee.
What if I have no idea what to write?
That’s exactly why I’m here! We’ll start with a fun and easy questionnaire to pull out your love story, memories, and feelings. From there, I’ll shape your thoughts into a structured, personalized draft.
Can you help with other wedding speeches?
Yes! I also craft speeches for the Maid of Honor, Best Man, parents, or anyone giving a toast. You can book a speech-writing package or add extra speeches to your vow package.
About
Carly Ann Filbin
Carly Ann Filbin is a writer, comedian, and storytelling coach based in New York City. Known for her razor-sharp wit and fearless storytelling, she has performed on stages across the country, captivating audiences with her brutally honest and hilarious takes on love, identity, and the chaos of modern life.
As the creator of Written in Brooklyn, a storytelling series and workshop, Carly helps aspiring storytellers find their voice and craft unforgettable narratives. Her work has been featured in major publications, and she’s been a fixture in NYC’s comedy and storytelling scene for years.
When she’s not on stage or coaching, you can find her analyzing ‘90s rom-coms, perfecting her vow-writing skills for soon-to-be-wed couples, or oversharing on Instagram.